So Jenny is 40+2 (weeks+days) now, and now people arent waiting to see us to ask when the baby is coming. Now they are calling, texting, facebooking, emailing - "Is she here yet? Why is she late?"
Like many people, we were hoping for a 40wk gest
ation. Its the standard right? Thats why they give due dates, right? Turns out not. The average gestation for a primiparous (first baby) mom according to a large study in the 1980s was 288 days. Thats 41 weeks and 1 day. True plenty of people go much earlier, plenty go later I suppose, though I havent heard of many going later than 40 and a few days (even in my OB rotations in med school and internship).
Curious about the distribution? Check out the graph.
So, while we are anxiously awaiting the arrival of our little angel, I guess we shouldn't be surprised that she isnt here yet.
Then there is the whole thing about what to do to get the baby to come. We are getting these all the time now, espcially since she is past 40 weeks. Unsolicited advice from random strangers even. The most common ones are things like walking, keeping active. Yup, we've done that. Jenny has been doing an hour on the elliptical machine each day, and on top of that when I've been home we've done walks around parks, around shoreline in mountain view, and Fremont Older open space preserve.
What else do people suggest? Of course these are all anecdotal things that people were randomly doing when the baby decided it was time to leave the womb, but they are fun to talk about. My mom suggests picking up golf balls at a driving range or mini golf course. People have told us to have Jenny wash the car, mow the lawn, drink castor oil, have lots of sex, eat ribs (they cant be BBQ sauced, the have to be dry rubbed ones), eat jelly donuts, vacuum the house, bounce on trampolines or birthing balls. There is drinking a lot, or purposefully dehydrating yourself too.
Lots of stuff to try!
If Jenny makes it to dinner, we'll be having some Mongolian style ribs that were on the cover of this month's Bon Appetit mag, Sorry random mountain biker dude, we are gonna go without the dry rub.